We are sad about the children that will not be with us today. Each new life is a miracle, and we are never ready when that life ends too soon. Life never feels the same again. Old truths feel like lies and old foundations unsteady. It takes a long time to claw our way back. Sometimes we feel as though we never will. There are so many of us and no answers that make any sense. And yet… the love we have for our sons and daughters is real…. and they are real and still living in our hearts. We remember them, not just today but every single day of our lives.
Today we remember each other too.
If you are grieving a son or daughter, there is a powerful book called The Death of a Child by Elaine Stillwell which is a comfort and a guide.












